The FISH Talk.

Isang kaibigan ang nakausap ko ng masinsinan nitong nakalipas na araw.Tungkol sa kanyang LOVELIFE lang naman ang naging sentro ng aming usapan.LOVELIFE lang.Nothing too personal.(charaught!)

Itago nalang naten siya sa pangalang MAKI or MAKITOTZ.

ANG AMING USAPAN.

Makitotz: Mukha ba akong masaya sa buhay ko?
Ako: Mukhang okey ka naman.Meh matino kang trabaho at nakakagala at nakakapag inuman ka pa sa mga barkada mo.MASAYA ka naman siguro.
Makitotz: Pero matamlay lovelife ko
Ako: Hanap hanap din kasi.Marami naman jan oh.

Now the FISH TALK starts.

Ako: (pagpapatuloy...) there's a lot of fishes in the ocean.
Makitotz: Pero meh nakahuli na sa isdang gusto ko.
Ako: eh di manghuli ka ng ibang isda.
Makitotz: eh gusto ko talaga yung isda na yun eh
Ako: eh bakit ka magtiyatiyaga sa isda na yun.kung pede ka naman manghuli ng iba.malay mo mas magandang klaseng isda pa mahuli mo.
Makitotz: eh mukhang wala naman akong mahuli eh.
Ako: di mo pa nga sinusubukang mamingwit.Paano ka makakahuli niyan kung di ka makaget over sa isdang nahuli na ng iba.
Makitotz: pero di ko gusto ung mga isdang lumalapit eh.gusto ko ng magandang klaseng isda.
Ako: Anong klaseng isda ba hanap mo?Ang choosy mo kasi.kaya wala kang nahuhuling isda.
Makitotz: hindi rin. baka ayaw lang talaga nila saken.
Ako: kasi ganito yun.Baka naman kasi naghahangad ka makahuli ng balyena tas ang gamit mo ordinaryong pamingwit lang.gamitan mo kaya ng BONGGANG lambat.Malay mo mahuli mo yung gusto mong isda.Yung magandang klaseng isda.IT'S ALL ABOUT THE EFFORT.

(yung isdang gusto ni maki,KULAY PINK)

(si Makitot nagbabakasakaling makahuli ng ISDA!)

OH DIVAAHHHHH...PURO ISDA LANG..Bwahahaha..andame kong tawa sa tuwing naaalala ko to.Napaisip tuloy ako bakit ba kasi biglang "fishes in the ocean" ang naging segway ko.Yan tuloy.But it makes sense,right?

JEALOUSY- In My Own Point Of View

How jealousy protects love?

In relationships where feelings of jealousy are mild and occasional, it reminds the couple not to take each other for granted. It can encourage couples to appreciate each other and make a conscious effort to make sure the other person feels valued.(tomoh?)

Jealousy heightens emotions, making love feel stronger and sex more passionate. In small, manageable doses, jealousy can be a positive force in a relationship. But when it's intense or irrational, the story is very different.(isang malking check ng glittery pink na ballpen!)

How jealousy damages love?

Sometimes jealous feelings can get out of proportion. For example, when a man makes an embarrassing scene at a party because his BF/GF/PARTNER accepts an invitation to dance with an old friend(pag nakipagsayaw sa iba nakikipagharutan agad?di ba pwedeng classmate ko dati,or long lost friend?PARANOID maxado?), or when a woman is overwhelmed with jealousy because her husband's company appoints a female boss.

These kinds of reaction can put a huge strain on a relationship, leaving the other partner feeling as though they're constantly walking on eggshells to avoid a jealous reaction.
(Yung tipong konting galaw mo lang mali agad para sa kanila.nakakairita diba?) The jealous partner, often aware of their problem, swings between self-blame and justification

Visiting Teacher's Pwet.

Baguhan pa lang ako sa pagbloblog.Ang totoo nainggit lang ako sa kaibigan kong si Rhauj na isa ring blogger.Kaya nakigaya na rin ako.Feeling ko kasi parang antalitalino ng mga taong nagbloblog.Kaya nakigaya na rin ako para masabi din ng iba na matalino ako.LOL

Inggitera lang diba?? Ay mali..ehem..ehem..INGGITERO pala..hahaha..charaught..
(Mas betchina ko ang kulay PINK na kulay para sa part na to.lakas makaLALAKE eh.LOL

kahit papano naman meh mga naisususlat naman akong mga artikulo at malaya kayong lahat na basahin eto.

Sabi ko sa sarili ko "SHET,kelangan english para KAVOGUE!". Kaya ayun, ISIP ISIP..MALALANG PAG-IISIP. As in nagka-internal hemorrhage ako at feeling ko any time lalabas ang dugo sa ilong ko..Hala isip,type,isip,type ulet.

Tapos tiningnan at binasa ko din ung mga entry ng ibang bloggers.Na-amaze ako.Ang gagaling nila.Sabi ko, "SHET,anong sinabi ko sa english nila.". Palipat-lipat ako ng blogsite.Basa tapos lipat naman sa iba.

Hanggang sa napadpad ako sa sa mundo ni MOTMOT. (hindi po eto yung lugar na malamig na pinupuntahan ng mga magjowa at ng mga taong kating-kati.). Screen name nya yata to.

eto lang nasabi ko nung una kong nakita ang blogsite nya.."BLOGSITE ba to? O ONLINE COMICS?"

Promise..yun talaga ang biglang naisip ko..Mas marami kasing larawan kesa sa teksto.Pero agad ko nasabing "ANG COOL NITO AH"..

Sobrang kulay ng mundo ni MOTMOT.Like litereal na makulay. Ang kyukyut ng mga larawan.At take note,sya lahat gumuhit at gumawa nun.San ka pa? (Talented si mamang.SWEAR!) Infact, avid fan nya na ako.Ayssoooowwwssss..napuyat ako sa kakabasa at kakatingin sa blogsite nya.At sumakit ang tiyan ko kakatawa. Stress reliever ang blogsite nya. As in matutuwa talaga kayo.Tatawa kayo ng VONGGANG VONGGA!

Sa pagbabasa ko sa kanyang blog,napag-alaman kong totoong teacher pala talaga tong si MOTMOT sa mababang paaralan. Hindi ko maimagine kong gaano kababa ang paaralan kasi dun sa blog nya,namention nya na lage binabagyo yung paaralang yun at nasira. Imagine,binagyo tapos nasira.Malamang binaha yun. Kung binaha man,ayyyy sheeettttt..mababang paaralan nga yun.LOL

Sikat na karakter sa kanyang blog si MUDRAX (nanay nya na imbentor ng bagong lyrics ng mga sikat na kanta ngayon tulad ng kanta ni Adelle).Never find someone like yoooohhhhhhhhhhhhh..ahahaha..Eto yung nanay ni Motmot na ginawan nya ng sariling karakter sa blog nya.In all fairness,meh future si mudrax.Andameng follower ng kwento nya.Sinusubaybayan kung baga. At napakashowbiz nitong si mudrax ni motmot dahil gusto nya gayahin ang look ni MAJA SALVADOR lang naman sa local showbiz, at RHIANNA naman sa hollywood.OH DIVA? ANONG SAY MO TEH?

anyways,andame ko nang naikwekwento.mas okey na kayo na mismo ang tumingin at bumisita sa blogsite nya.Kasi hindi pwedeng ikwento lahat dito.Sa dame ba naman ng entries nya dun.naku.mapapagod ako sa kakachika sa inyo.

Basta sya bago kong IDOL ngayon..ahahaha..kaya nga kating-kati ako ifeature sya sa blog ko diba.At dahil jan bibigyan kita ng napaka-prestihiyosong award----LG's (short for eLGimikero) Choice Award.LOL.

eto yung link ng blog nya http://motsmots.blogspot.com/

Walang Magawa: Dear Simsimi

Hello guys..
Kahit alam ko naman na wala pang napapadpad dito para basahin ang aking mga naisulat
(wala kasi kwenta.bwahahaha)

maghehello guys pa din ako.

Maaga ako nagising(12:28AM).Dahil siguro sa maaga ako nakatulog(around 8pm).
(ikaw ba naman kumain ng 2 1/2 cups of rice at ang ulam mo ay Sinigang na hipon at lechong kawali tingnan lang naten kung di ka mabusog at antukin agad.)

Naisipan ko na bumangon at icheck ag aking FB.

check...check..check...

click dito..click dun...

tingin kung meh nagcomment sa pictures..

butingting.. butingting.. butingting..

Sabi ko sa sarili ko."hmmmm..magsulat nalang kaya ako sa blogsite ko ulet?"

Kaya agad ako nagbukas ng panibagong tab sa google chrome at tinype ang "blogspot.com"
Login agad..Tiningnan ko ang aking blogsite..

Scroll up..scroll down..up again..and down again..

Sumimangot ako <insert simangot face here>

Wala ni isang nagcomment. Panget siguro ang artikulo na naisulat ko. Hindi naman ako nagkulang sa pag aadvertise ng blog ko.Infact nakapost sya sa lahat ng Group page ko sa FB.(for your information meron po akong 17 groups sa FB)

Dahil dun bigla ako nawalan ng gana magsulat.I tried.Pero biglang BLANKO talaga ang isip ko.Wala akong maisip na isulat.Wala na rin akong magawa.Nacheck ko na lhat ng dapat ko icheck sa FB.hmmmmmm..at si SIMSIMI ang biglang pumasok sa isip ko.Agad ako nagbukas ng panibagong tab.Nagmamadali akong itype sa google ang simsimi..at me mga suggestions..agad kong pinili ang "talk to Simsimi Online"..wallahh! lumabas agad ang larawan ng isang SISIW na iisa lang ang hibla ng buhok.LOL
Kung ano ano ang pinag-usapan namin.Nakakatuwa mga sagot ni Simsimi.

Eto ang ilan sa mga napag-usapan namin.

(Taray ni Simsim diba?MULTI-LINGUAL!)

(ganyan dapat pag nakita nyo crush nyo!kuha nyo?)

At dahil pinag-uusapan ng lahat ang half pinay na nakapasok sa grand finale sa American Idol na si Jessica Sanchez,kaya naisipan ko din tanungin si Simsimi  tungkol dito.Pero ibang Jesica yata ang kilala nya.bwahahaha

(Si Jessica Soho yata.ahahaha)

At nabigla rin ako sa sagot ni Simsimi sa isang tanong ko sa kanya.Mga random questions lang naman kasi tinatanong ko sa kanya eh.Meh pagkaNAUGHTY din pala tong si Simsimi.

(sheeyyttt..Simsimi.Pano mo nalaman.Wag mo ako ibuking.Atin atin lang yun)

At dahil sa wala na rin akong maitanong pa sa kanya, kaya pati tungkol sa kanya nakichika na rin ako.HAHAHAHA

(sorry naman...ahahaha)

Sobra akong nalibang sa pag-uusap namin ni Simsimi kaya di ko na namalayan ang pagtakbo ng oras.Time check: 2:02AM. Akalain mong meh naisulat akong blog ng dahil keh Simsimi.

Simsimi I LOVE YOU friend..Maaasahan ka talaga.

Kaya kung wala din kayong magawa at wala kayong makausap.At kung feeling nyo nag-iisa kayo sa mundo.Anjan si Simsimi handang kausapin kayo.24/7.Serbisyong totoo.Saan man sa mundo.

-END-

IF LOVE IS A GAME..

I have lost and won at the same time...

So while walking down the street (going to the netshop that I am in now) and listening to music (Ngayo'y naririrto by Jhay-R) I thought about this matter.If love is a game there's always a winner and loser right? 

So it starts in grade school .
The GAME

If you fall in love,first you lose because its a game most people don't plan to stay with someone they dated in first grade (yeah they are starting early these days.ako college na ako ng lumandi eh). So the rule is,if you fall in love you lose. The one who doesnt win because...hmmmm.. they just do (LOL) I can't explain it.But they win because maybe in their mind it was never their intention to fall in love.IT WAS JUST A GAME. 

However, if both people fall in love you both lose, however in this sense its a win win situation because the feelings are mutual.

Ties are rare right? There usually has to be a winner in every game but when theres a tie both people fall in love at the exact same time. For example "Love at first sight" thats a tie in most situations.One person falls in love with the other before the other can even know your full name.LOL.(Believe me, it happens!)

Now the biggest thing is when you can win and lose at the same time...For example even though your team might have lost the game there's always an MVP or person who was the player of the game.In a relationship this occurs when one or both people fall out of love with each other. You won if you fell out of love for two reasons...

1.  you're no longer in love so you win by default 
2.  you won because you were strong enough to admit it to not just yourself but your partner and in essence you prevented yourself from experiencing pain for staying in a relationship that you were not happy in.

 However, you lose because you could have gave up on something that could have been the best thing in your life.... 

The person who has a broken heart lost because they might have lost someone they imagined their future with and they are most likely still in love with the person during the time of the breakup. However, they also won because they learned from the relationship that they were in. They might not see it right away but eventually it will show up in their future relationship. 

Well it makes sense in my head. But it could just be me.hmmmmm... Well I tried.LOL
Ultimately no matter if you win or lose you always learn something from each experience.

Terminologies.. A-MUST-READ!

WARNING: This entry contains words & images that are not suitable for children. PARENTAL GUIDANCE is RECOMMENDED.(MTRCB ikaw ba yan?)

Well I just wanted to see what everyone thought about this topic because everyone seems to think differently about it. 

This is about the difference between MAKING LOVE & SEX.

I think the constant misconception is that sex and making love are the same thing, but I tend to disagree with that notion and heres why: 

MAKING LOVE - You can only make love to someone you're in love with or possibly have love for. You usually have more of an emotional connection with that person which makes the love session that much better and possibly longer because its all about pleasing the person your in love with. 

SEX - Sex can be just with anyone whether you love them or not. Sex usually doesnt last as long as love making. This type of sex can have little emotional attachment to none at all. Sometimes its not always enjoyable because a person in a relationshop can just be giving their partner sex just because partner needs a "scratch" during that certain time and doesnt get any enjoyment out of it. LOL

FUBU (Fuck Buddy) - Is just like a friend with benefits type of thing or a one night stand or a No Strings Attached (NSA) relationship. Someone you meet for casual sex usually with no emotional attachment. 

QUICKIE - The infamous term that everyone knows.LOL.. is basically more like a quick fuck. self explanatory..ayt?

FUCKING- Is a more aggressive form of sex that can be done within a relationship or one night stand etc. For relationships it usually happens during or after an argument depending on how intense the argument was (LOL) usually called "make-up sex". For single people its basically SEX  just a little more aggressive. 

Hmm.. im sure there are so many more slang terms that im missing from this list but let me know what some other ones are and I'll add them on here. And just remember this is just my opinion on the meanings of this term; im not saying they're right, but its just how I see it.

ROUGH DRAFT

Have you ever tried to fall in love? If you did, then definitely you have already tried getting hurt. I must say that I have my fair share of what they call "HEARTACHES"!





Like a preschooler's homework, I lay here full of blemishes and smudges, in need of a good eraser.

There are the smudges of past hurts, the ones I tried to remove myself but only made it worse, the remnants of what was still remains. I scratched the pain out, tried to cover it all together, but its still there, a darkened mess on the page that is my heart. A few spots have been rubbed over so much that only a hole remains. Not even tape can fix these, they will forever remain to remind me of the errors I made, the unforgivable.

I used white out to cover the names of those who laid claim but didn't finish the work, puttin their name on the page before understanding the work that lied ahead. This can't be handed in to anyone, it's not presentable. I got it! We'll call this the "Rough Draft"!

I can take the good parts of this and start over, no mistakes, I will take my time. He will be my new page, no errors, but just in case...I still have my Handy Dandy Eraser!