Tuesday, May 29, 2012

JEALOUSY- In My Own Point Of View

How jealousy protects love?

In relationships where feelings of jealousy are mild and occasional, it reminds the couple not to take each other for granted. It can encourage couples to appreciate each other and make a conscious effort to make sure the other person feels valued.(tomoh?)

Jealousy heightens emotions, making love feel stronger and sex more passionate. In small, manageable doses, jealousy can be a positive force in a relationship. But when it's intense or irrational, the story is very different.(isang malking check ng glittery pink na ballpen!)

How jealousy damages love?

Sometimes jealous feelings can get out of proportion. For example, when a man makes an embarrassing scene at a party because his BF/GF/PARTNER accepts an invitation to dance with an old friend(pag nakipagsayaw sa iba nakikipagharutan agad?di ba pwedeng classmate ko dati,or long lost friend?PARANOID maxado?), or when a woman is overwhelmed with jealousy because her husband's company appoints a female boss.

These kinds of reaction can put a huge strain on a relationship, leaving the other partner feeling as though they're constantly walking on eggshells to avoid a jealous reaction.
(Yung tipong konting galaw mo lang mali agad para sa kanila.nakakairita diba?) The jealous partner, often aware of their problem, swings between self-blame and justification


  1. At talagang binasa ko to dahil seloso ako eh. hahaha! well, isa lang naman ang solusyon sa selos eh dapat i-make sure ng partner na he's secured ganun lang.

    Ang mga seloso kasi insecure so dapat ma feel nila na secured sila sa love nung partner nila. tsaka hindi naman sila makakaramdam ng selos kung walang kakaibang nangyayari. wala lang... hehe!

    1. hahahaha..salamat sa komento..mukhang meh malalim ang pinaghugutan mo nyan..LOL..

    2. hahahaha! sabihin na lang nating yan ang dahilan ng *ehem* hiwalayan.

    3. ahahahaha..kea pala...affected much..nakakarelate..ahahaha