SMP No More!

Have you heard about SMP? If you haven’t, well it’s an abbreviation for “Samahan ng Malalamig ang Pasko”. A term used for people who spend their Christmas alone. It just sucks when you wake up in the morning, get off from bed, check out the calendar, saw it's already December and the simbang-gabi-turned-into-a-date scene just flashes in your mind, and you realize that you, a gorgeous head-turner, the all time sexiest in the class (according to your mom!) just don't have any reasons to celebrate the cold season of Christmas and worse be an official member of the SMP club.

Fishes are found in the ocean, beasts are found on land, and the girls and the guys...? They're actually everywhere! If you're already desperate, or say, just "eager" to find Mr. & Ms. Right, or simply just wanna find a date this Christmas, here are some tips on how and where you can find the guy/girl of your dreams- QUICKLY!

1. GO ONLINE! - Come on, there's nothing quite more effective than broadcasting yourself to the world! There's a lot of "romantic sites" available and I personally view it as the easiest way to find a girl or a guy for yourself.

2. AT THE COFFEE SHOPS - The place is just so relaxing and the place is just so perfect for a nice talk. Here's how to build a rapport, if you spotted a guy or a girl, don't hesitate to approach him/her, ask him/her if he/she wants a cup of coffee and that's it! Plus, psychologists say that the aroma of coffee stimulates the brain and shifts a person's mood into romance.

3. AT THE CLUBS AND BARS - Alright, the place is wild, the crowd is wild. Everybody's drunk. That simple.

4. JOIN TEXT CLANS - It's just amazing how a hundred people will be instantly added to your phonebook. The bigger your network, the bigger chances of meeting people.

5. AT THE MALL - The mall offers a lot of department-salons, restaurants, arcade stations, cinemas,restrooms(LOL. Kiddin') and a lot more. A lot of people go to the mall specially during Christmas sale, so there's a big chance that you will spot a lot of potential sweetheart, too.

6. ASK A FRIEND - In Advertising, they say that the best way to sell is through recommendation. High five!

Alright, now that you already know some tips as to where to find a potential date/lover/sweetheart or whatever you call it, then what are you waiting for? Make a move and “carpe diem”!

The FISH Talk.

Isang kaibigan ang nakausap ko ng masinsinan nitong nakalipas na araw.Tungkol sa kanyang LOVELIFE lang naman ang naging sentro ng aming usapan.LOVELIFE lang.Nothing too personal.(charaught!)

Itago nalang naten siya sa pangalang MAKI or MAKITOTZ.

ANG AMING USAPAN.

Makitotz: Mukha ba akong masaya sa buhay ko?
Ako: Mukhang okey ka naman.Meh matino kang trabaho at nakakagala at nakakapag inuman ka pa sa mga barkada mo.MASAYA ka naman siguro.
Makitotz: Pero matamlay lovelife ko
Ako: Hanap hanap din kasi.Marami naman jan oh.

Now the FISH TALK starts.

Ako: (pagpapatuloy...) there's a lot of fishes in the ocean.
Makitotz: Pero meh nakahuli na sa isdang gusto ko.
Ako: eh di manghuli ka ng ibang isda.
Makitotz: eh gusto ko talaga yung isda na yun eh
Ako: eh bakit ka magtiyatiyaga sa isda na yun.kung pede ka naman manghuli ng iba.malay mo mas magandang klaseng isda pa mahuli mo.
Makitotz: eh mukhang wala naman akong mahuli eh.
Ako: di mo pa nga sinusubukang mamingwit.Paano ka makakahuli niyan kung di ka makaget over sa isdang nahuli na ng iba.
Makitotz: pero di ko gusto ung mga isdang lumalapit eh.gusto ko ng magandang klaseng isda.
Ako: Anong klaseng isda ba hanap mo?Ang choosy mo kasi.kaya wala kang nahuhuling isda.
Makitotz: hindi rin. baka ayaw lang talaga nila saken.
Ako: kasi ganito yun.Baka naman kasi naghahangad ka makahuli ng balyena tas ang gamit mo ordinaryong pamingwit lang.gamitan mo kaya ng BONGGANG lambat.Malay mo mahuli mo yung gusto mong isda.Yung magandang klaseng isda.IT'S ALL ABOUT THE EFFORT.

(yung isdang gusto ni maki,KULAY PINK)

(si Makitot nagbabakasakaling makahuli ng ISDA!)

OH DIVAAHHHHH...PURO ISDA LANG..Bwahahaha..andame kong tawa sa tuwing naaalala ko to.Napaisip tuloy ako bakit ba kasi biglang "fishes in the ocean" ang naging segway ko.Yan tuloy.But it makes sense,right?

IF LOVE IS A GAME..

I have lost and won at the same time...

So while walking down the street (going to the netshop that I am in now) and listening to music (Ngayo'y naririrto by Jhay-R) I thought about this matter.If love is a game there's always a winner and loser right? 

So it starts in grade school .
The GAME

If you fall in love,first you lose because its a game most people don't plan to stay with someone they dated in first grade (yeah they are starting early these days.ako college na ako ng lumandi eh). So the rule is,if you fall in love you lose. The one who doesnt win because...hmmmm.. they just do (LOL) I can't explain it.But they win because maybe in their mind it was never their intention to fall in love.IT WAS JUST A GAME. 

However, if both people fall in love you both lose, however in this sense its a win win situation because the feelings are mutual.

Ties are rare right? There usually has to be a winner in every game but when theres a tie both people fall in love at the exact same time. For example "Love at first sight" thats a tie in most situations.One person falls in love with the other before the other can even know your full name.LOL.(Believe me, it happens!)

Now the biggest thing is when you can win and lose at the same time...For example even though your team might have lost the game there's always an MVP or person who was the player of the game.In a relationship this occurs when one or both people fall out of love with each other. You won if you fell out of love for two reasons...

1.  you're no longer in love so you win by default 
2.  you won because you were strong enough to admit it to not just yourself but your partner and in essence you prevented yourself from experiencing pain for staying in a relationship that you were not happy in.

 However, you lose because you could have gave up on something that could have been the best thing in your life.... 

The person who has a broken heart lost because they might have lost someone they imagined their future with and they are most likely still in love with the person during the time of the breakup. However, they also won because they learned from the relationship that they were in. They might not see it right away but eventually it will show up in their future relationship. 

Well it makes sense in my head. But it could just be me.hmmmmm... Well I tried.LOL
Ultimately no matter if you win or lose you always learn something from each experience.

Terminologies.. A-MUST-READ!

WARNING: This entry contains words & images that are not suitable for children. PARENTAL GUIDANCE is RECOMMENDED.(MTRCB ikaw ba yan?)

Well I just wanted to see what everyone thought about this topic because everyone seems to think differently about it. 

This is about the difference between MAKING LOVE & SEX.

I think the constant misconception is that sex and making love are the same thing, but I tend to disagree with that notion and heres why: 

MAKING LOVE - You can only make love to someone you're in love with or possibly have love for. You usually have more of an emotional connection with that person which makes the love session that much better and possibly longer because its all about pleasing the person your in love with. 

SEX - Sex can be just with anyone whether you love them or not. Sex usually doesnt last as long as love making. This type of sex can have little emotional attachment to none at all. Sometimes its not always enjoyable because a person in a relationshop can just be giving their partner sex just because partner needs a "scratch" during that certain time and doesnt get any enjoyment out of it. LOL

FUBU (Fuck Buddy) - Is just like a friend with benefits type of thing or a one night stand or a No Strings Attached (NSA) relationship. Someone you meet for casual sex usually with no emotional attachment. 

QUICKIE - The infamous term that everyone knows.LOL.. is basically more like a quick fuck. self explanatory..ayt?

FUCKING- Is a more aggressive form of sex that can be done within a relationship or one night stand etc. For relationships it usually happens during or after an argument depending on how intense the argument was (LOL) usually called "make-up sex". For single people its basically SEX  just a little more aggressive. 

Hmm.. im sure there are so many more slang terms that im missing from this list but let me know what some other ones are and I'll add them on here. And just remember this is just my opinion on the meanings of this term; im not saying they're right, but its just how I see it.

ROUGH DRAFT

Have you ever tried to fall in love? If you did, then definitely you have already tried getting hurt. I must say that I have my fair share of what they call "HEARTACHES"!





Like a preschooler's homework, I lay here full of blemishes and smudges, in need of a good eraser.

There are the smudges of past hurts, the ones I tried to remove myself but only made it worse, the remnants of what was still remains. I scratched the pain out, tried to cover it all together, but its still there, a darkened mess on the page that is my heart. A few spots have been rubbed over so much that only a hole remains. Not even tape can fix these, they will forever remain to remind me of the errors I made, the unforgivable.

I used white out to cover the names of those who laid claim but didn't finish the work, puttin their name on the page before understanding the work that lied ahead. This can't be handed in to anyone, it's not presentable. I got it! We'll call this the "Rough Draft"!

I can take the good parts of this and start over, no mistakes, I will take my time. He will be my new page, no errors, but just in case...I still have my Handy Dandy Eraser!